Archives > Plano Star-courier > News
Plano parents combat nomophobia through cellphone app

Kelsey Kruzich/Staff Photo - Nomophobia - or the fear of being without your cellphone - is on the rise, accordign to a report sponsored by SecurEnvoy, a company specializing in digital passwords. According to the report, these anxieties seem to be more prevalent in women and teenagers.
By Kelley Chambers, kchambers@starlocalnews.com
When Glenn and Wendy White gave their daughter her first cellphone, its primary function was for emergencies only.
But a couple of years, an unlimited texting plan and a few social networking sites later, the Plano parents now hope they can use their experience living with a cellphone addict to help other parents combat the phenomenon being called nomophobia before it begins.
"More and more of [my daughter's] friends were getting cellphones and/or laptops, she was constantly texting and using her laptop, sometimes simultaneously," said Wendy on her Facebook page, which the Whites use educate parents on nomophobia. "She was starting to develop the mentality that she must always be connected. Those habits were learned in her early teenage years that have been detrimental to this day."
According to a March 6 CNN article titled, "Rise of 'nomophobia': More people fear loss of mobile contact," recent research sponsored by SecurEnvoy, an internet security firm, show that more people feel anxious and tense without their phone. The stress is heightened the younger they are, as well, according to the study.
A recent online survey of 1,000 people in the U.K. found that almost two-thirds (66 percent) of respondents were afflicted, 11 percent more when compared to a similar study four years ago, according to the CNN article.
Having learned the hard way about the effects of cellphone addiction through their daughter, the Whites began thinking of ways in which they could help other parents prevent nomophobia before it starts. Ironically, their solution comes in the form of a cellphone app.
Since its release in February, the parental control app for Android phones has been sold to people all over the world, from Singapore to Florida to France, proving that parents in America are not the only ones combating cellphone addiction. The app basically allows parents to put a lock on their child's cellphone during chosen hours of the day, such as when they are in school or while they should be sleeping or doing homework.
Glenn realized first hand the temptations that smart phones have when he got his first one about a year ago, and said he hopes the app might allow parents to regain some control without having to enforce punishment.
"We thought it might be a good thing to do for parents and children; children of course, won't appreciate it but maybe later on they would," Glenn said. "Addiction is a learned thing, we didn't grow up with this, and don't realize it until you get it."
Like her daughter, Wendy has a smartphone and frequents Facebook and Twitter, all of which she checks throughout the day. The difference between her and her now 23-year-old, she said, is that it is not a learned behavior for Wendy and therefore, she is in control. That is not usually the case for children and teenagers, who are spending many of their adolescent years with a cellphone close at hand.
"As a parent, you need to take control of your child's distractions," Wendy said. "I think when you become a parent, your whole life is nothing but hard decisions to make for your child. I have the benefit of hindsight to see how these behaviors have developed."
The following are comments from the readers.
In no way do they represent the view of Starlocalnews.com
In no way do they represent the view of Starlocalnews.com
entitledmommies wrote on Apr 10, 2012 3:40 PM:
" What a pathetic story. These rich parents lavish their kids with expensive gadgets and then lament that they cannot function without them.
"I think when you become a parent, your whole life is nothing but hard decisions to make for your child. I have the benefit of hindsight to see how these behaviors have developed."
This is such entitled BS. Remember all that great Plano parenting that created a whole generation of heroin addicts? Vapid. "
"I think when you become a parent, your whole life is nothing but hard decisions to make for your child. I have the benefit of hindsight to see how these behaviors have developed."
This is such entitled BS. Remember all that great Plano parenting that created a whole generation of heroin addicts? Vapid. "
You must register with a valid email to post comments.
Only your Member ID will be posted with the comments.
Only your Member ID will be posted with the comments.
Registered users sign in here:
Become a Registered User
- Return to: News «
- Home «
- Top of Page ^
You may remember McGruff The Crime Dog - Take A Bite Out of Crime - from your own childhood.
They also have a Windows Parental Control system (http://www.GoMcGruff.com)
McGruff SafeGuard released a Child Safe Browser app that is a look-alike for Safari, but provides a parent with full control of the categories of websites that can be visited.
It also provides a summary of activity to the parent via email.
Check out http://www.GoMcGruff.com/browser
and http://www.GoMcGruff.com/BrowserVideo "